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Teething Time







It can be an exciting time when your little one cut their first tooth. But when will that happen?

Babies usually start teething around six months old. However all babies are different and this can range from three months all the way up to when they reach their first birthday, so don’t be worried if your baby had not exhibited signs of teething before twelve months.

What are the signs and symptoms that you baby is teething?

Symptoms can start three to five days before the tooth breaks through the gum and you should notice that once the tooth has erupted the symptoms are relieved.

Again all babies are different but some of the common signs and symptoms include:

Drooling a lot – keep some tissues and extra bibs with you to mop up the dribble. It’s a good idea to wipe their mouth and chest regularly as the saliva can cause rashes.

Slightly raised temperature – this is usually nothing to be worried about but keep an eye on it as your baby may have an underlying infection that is not related to teething, but can be masked by the signs and symptoms. If you are worried seek advice from your GP immediately.

Hot and rosy cheeks – your baby’s cheeks may be red and hot to the touch. If you wet a flannel with cold water and place it on their cheeks it can help to cool them down.

Disturbed sleep - the pain of teething can cause your baby to wake up on a regular basis so be prepared for some sleepless nights until the tooth erupts.

Fussy eating – you may notice that if your baby is breast fed that they start biting down on your nipples to try and relieve their pain. Similarly with bottle fed babies they may start chewing the teat.  You may also find that your baby is only interested in foods they can bite down on and chew.

Swollen and sore – the area where the tooth is erupting can become very red and swollen. This is perfectly normal.

Chewing everything – to relieve the pressure in their gums your baby will probably be chewing on anything they find, so be extra vigilant with what you leave lying around.
   

What can you do to relieve the symptoms?

It can sometimes be quite distressing when your baby starts teething as they can cry a lot and be very fussy, but there are some very good medical and non medical ways to relieve the pain. These include:

Teething rings – make sure these are sterilised before use. Freeze them and once the liquid is solid, give it to your baby to chew on.

Rubbing their gums – massaging their gums on a regular basis can relieve some of the pressure they are feeling, just make sure you wash your hands before you do this.

Freeze a banana – pop a banana in the freezer overnight. This can be a great way to relieve the pain and they will enjoy chewing on it. This option is only suitable if your baby is weaned and at the right stage to eat a frozen banana.

Infant paracetamol – this can ease some of the pain but be sure to space out the doses and always read the label.

Topical anaesthetic gels – these work by numbing the gums. Rub it all over their gums and you should find it is very fast acting.

Once your baby’s tooth has erupted you need to start brushing it on a regular basis. It can be difficult to use a toothbrush on a baby so using a damp flannel can do the job quite well.


Is Breast Always Best?





When I found out I was pregnant with my first child at the age of 20 I was very excited. It was a planned pregnancy I was over the moon.

I started reading articles about breast feeding verses bottle feeding and the majority of them leaned towards breast feeding being the better option for my baby and bottle feeding only being used if there was a medical reason. I decided that breast feeding was the way forward and I couldn’t see any reason to spend money on formula when I could get milk for free.
I went shopping for breast pads and nipple creams and I also bought a breast pump and bottles for when my baby was a little older.
I was quite excited about the prospect of bonding with my baby through breast feeding and having one to one time.

When I was on labour ward my (not so friendly) midwife asked me if I would be bottle or breast feeding. When I said breast she seemed quite shocked and told me not many mums opt for breast feeding anymore. I found that quite surprising. I had just assumed that most mums breast fed unless there was a medical reason not to.
As soon as my son was born the midwife helped me to get in the right position for him to latch on. He did immediately and I was delighted. He did it again for the next two feeds but after the third I could feel my nipples becoming sore. He was waking for a feed every two hours and it was getting more painful each time.
I told one of the midwives how painful it was and she told me that it could be because he wasn’t latching on properly and she helped me try a new position and advised applying nipple cream.
When I looked around at the other mums on the ward I couldn’t see anyone else breast feeding and I felt quite isolated.

I was discharged from the hospital the next day and tried to persevere with the breast feeding and talked to my health visitor. Nothing I tried seemed to work and I began to get really upset and irritable. Obviously lack of sleep wasn’t helping. All the excitement of one to one bonding had gone out of the window and I just wanted someone to help me. I tried expressing milk but it was taking too long and I had a screaming baby waiting to be fed. I gave in and went to buy formula.


When I found out I was pregnant with my daughter I wanted to give breast feeding another go. I came up against the same situation again and ended up bottle feeding her too. It didn’t help that in the first week she was born I developed and infection which meant I was throwing up a lot and my son got chickenpox.


Despite all the problems I faced, if I ever had more children I think I would still try breastfeeding again. I do believe it is the healthiest option, however making myself ill with worry isn’t good for anyone so I would make sure I had formula at home just in case.